Women's Self Defense Courses
I quickly realized that women had completely
different concerns, fears, and needs than males. I listened to their concerns and tailored
something that was not only educational but also met their personal fears. Men have no idea what
women go through on an everyday basis from the stares and comments to the physical gestures and
advances.
What Will You Learn?
- 4Ps Personal Protection Psychological
Preparation
- How to Determine Motives of Aggressor During
Confrontation
- The Passive Stance and its Benefits
- Effective Striking From Passive Stance
Why I Teach Women
One of my favourite reasons for teaching women is
how receptive they are to the skills that I provide. I attribute this to their appreciating the
value in what I offer. While most men are receptive, they are usually more interested on a
different level involving the male ego and wanting to know how to fight. Women are interested in
learning, based more on their survival in todays reality. Each skill or tactic I show them
could potentially save their life and you can see it in the way they practice and adopt the new
skill. Women have more reasons to learn these skills.
Forget Tupperware Parties!
Invite 6 to 8 of your friends for a few hours of
fun, education and potentially life saving instruction. Plan a meal, bbq, snacks, maybe some
dessert! Be prepared for a unique self defense experience! What has made us so popular is our
unique method of teaching with humour and our sharing of anecdotes. Get to experience our simulated
attacks in scenario specific situations such as at the front door, the kitchen, the car,
etc.
I find that women are so much more willing to share
their stories and feelings of fear since they dont have the same pressure on them to be
the man and have no fear or anxiety to confrontation. I have been both thankful and
humbled by what thousands of women have told me. They have taught me so much more by sharing their
stories with me. My course has really been structured around all the stories students have shared
with me. The women I have taught have in many ways designed my course for me by
telling me their tragedies and successes.
I recall years ago when I was invited to be the
keynote speaker at the Annual Ontario Block Parents Convention. There were about 100 adults in
attendance comprising of about 75 women. There were also about 25 police officers. I began my talk
on how to avoid and handle potentially dangerous situations such as being followed, elevator
safety, parking lots, distraction techniques, etc and all the women were laughing while about 20
male police officers sat there with their arms crossed staring at me seriously. I was thinking this
might not be going so well even though all the women were laughing. At this point, the senior
police officer in the group stood up and asked if he could say something. At this moment I was
thinking Well, this is probably the end of my business and he is going to tell me not to make
a joke out of personal safety. He actually told the group of 100 or so that this was the best
approach to personal safety he had ever seen! I spoke to him after and told him how he scared the
life out of me. He said that as a police officer he was sitting listening to the information and
not focusing on the humour. He agreed that with the majority of the population the humour was a
unique way to get the message across. This is a definite difference I find between teaching men and
women.
Maybe the best proof I had that the use of humour
was an effective and unique way to teach self defense was when I had a woman who managed a home for
abused women came out to watch one of my seminars. After the course she approached me about doing a
seminar at her shelter. I expressed my concern about teaching with humour and how would it go over
in an intense setting like that. She said Chris, I have never known anyone to get upset
because you made them laugh. She said I notice that you make the topic fun to learn and you are not
making fun of the topic. That sealed it for me. It confirmed to me that I had found the
perfect way for me to teach the topic of self defense.
Private/Family Lessons
Private lessons for one person, the entire family,
and bring a neighbor or two. This is the best environment to learn in, as I am able to tailor a
course that meets yours and / or your family specific needs. We can address scenarios specific to
your home, analyzing potential trouble areas inside and outside of the home.
We can work with you in your car on the different scenarios one might find themselves
in, whether it be on vacation somewhere unknown or just on a daily shopping trip addressing
carjackings, etc. The family can be taught as a unit so each person in the home understands the
Family Safety Plan. This course is taught in a clear, concise manner with a humourous touch to make
everyone comfortable. SAFE International has taught more than 100 000 clients successfully using
this formula.
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